I have to admit. Making new mom friends is hard work. It isn’t because I feel that I am above anyone or think that others don’t really match up I just feel like the older we get the harder it gets to connect, hang out and make it work....
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We all want to be heard. Especially by our partner. We want their love and acceptance and to make sure that our relationship is healthy but sometimes, things change and we change so it is important to get back on track. We can do that by doing little things throughout the day here and there for our partner......
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We are all guilty of it. Acting like we do everything and the other does nothing. EVEN IF WE CAN PHYSICALLY SEE them doing things, yep we do more....
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I now understand that your true family loves you. Talks to you with kindness. Shows you love and respect. Guides you and cares for you and if you aren't getting that in return, that isn't family....
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Sure it isn't sitting down and having a cup of coffee but if I am being honest, nobody has time for that. At least I don't. Friendships are meant to be valued and I value all of mine but I cannot make time to sit down.....
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It sucks because as badly as I want to hang out with people it just isn't in the cards. I am tired...REALLY really tired...Or busy. Or tired and busy....
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Thank you for being a safe place to call. Someone I can talk to for hours at a time and not feel judged or criticized. Thank you for opening your arms during the holidays and making me feel as if I belong. ...
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Mental health is a bitch. It really is and it is so hard to grasp and get a hold on. But the most we can do is try. We can try to take the steps to heal and move forward even though some of the things we are trying to heal from are very traumatic. ...
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Love yourself friends. YOU ARE STILL YOU. You just have a little spice now. Maybe some milk puke on your shoulder. But you are still you. Take the time to rediscover yourself and enjoy WHO YOU ARE NOW and all that you have accomplished NOW by revisiting who you used to be as well. Blend it all up and you have one bad ass ma...
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I have lost myself a lot this year. I have had plenty of mental breakdowns, I have screamed in the shower, I have gone to counseling and I have shared wonderful memories with my children....
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The only person who can determine if you are attractive and sexy is YOU so own your confidence, wear what you want, do what you want, and don't wait on someone else to determine if you look good or not. You can be a size 0 or a size 20, you are damn gorgeous no matter what. Now go drink some water and buy some red lipstick....
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We don't want to be sad, depressed, overwhelmed so what do we do? We grow. We make positive choices every single day that will help us change in a positive way and grow from things that may or may not be healthy.Â
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Do your best. We all make mistakes and we all lose our cool. Losing your cool doesn’t make you a bad parent. HOWEVER, losing your cool and then acting on it takes you a few steps forward in a positive way as a parent....
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There is no perfect parent. Right now during weird times all we can do is our best that is all. Throw your hands up. Cry in the shower. Make pancakes for dinner. Brush off the little things. Everything is weird and everyone is feeling it and you are a kickass parent doing the best that you can during an unknown time. ...
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I used to feel that I had it all figured out and I didn't need a "book" to help me. But then I started to stumble across some of these books and they helped me in so many ways! ...
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I used to make excuses because it was easier...and now I know the things I am capable of. Sometimes I get giddy and excited thinking about what could be in a year or even five years. But I know if I don't push forward and make time for myself I will stay comfortable and still. I don't want to be comfortable......
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I love my life but crying helps. It helps me get all of the crap out of my system. It helps me release the weight of constant go go go. I get 10 minutes to just be. Alone. In a Luke warm shower. Sometimes I don't cry sometimes I just stand in silence. ...
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I see you all. Doing the best that you can. EVERY SINGLE DAY. It isn't easy. BUT YOU DO IT. EVERY SINGLE DAY. Right now things seem hard and nothing makes sense but one day it will and we just have to remember that every day we push through the physical and emotional obstacles is one day CLOSER to it all making sense....
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i wish i could get a hotel room to myself for the night just to be alone.
Now that we really aren't allowed to hang out with people due to COVID It is clear who was a real friend and who wasn't. I hear from NOBODY and I am lonelier than ever.
I wish the holidays could be more about spending time with the people we love than feeling like we have to put on a show. There's always so much pressure.
